An
Eulogy for: Frank D. Horan (BUZ) By Jim Prichard
INTRODUCTION:
First I would like to
express the families grateful compliments to Dr. Manhouse and the
Providence Staff for the outstanding and enduring effort they put
forth to help Buz survive, they are very saddened by his passing.
I want to share with
you the celebration of this good life.
Buz was a Catholic
and a man of faith, Tho he was not a frequent church goer.
Our friend is gone
but his good memory will be with us for the balance of our lives.
I also want you to
know how grateful we are that he was willing to spend time with us
at dinners and the like, even tho his energy was diminished.
My image of Buz is
this man with a fresh, clean, handsome, boyish, Irish look about him
all connected to a bright smile. He by the way was very proud of
being Irish
Background:
Buz graduated from
Garfield High School 1952, joined The Boeing Co. that same year and
began studying at the U of W. , a short while later he was drafted
to service in the U.S. Army during the Korean war and actually
served there. Some two years later, honorably discharged he
re-joined the Boeing co. In 1956 he married Marcia Wingsness.
With a name of
Franklin Delano the die was cast early for a political orientation
Character -Qualities-
values:
When I reflect on his
life there are those certain qualities and values that quickly rise
to the surface: He valued family so greatly, the love of his life
Marcia, the kids and the grand kids, Sisters and Brothers all.
He sincerely
cherished his friends whom he loved and respected and was grateful
for.
He loved the parties
and social events and he was a very good dancer. Except when he
would dance with me he always wanted to lead.
He was extremely
loyal to all of us.
He did have a
directness but it was honest and he believed it for your benefit and
his to be clear. This was not always done with diplomacy, but
honesty.
He was very
responsible and financial stability was very important to him. Yes,
he was very interested in money, and there were those among us, who
actually labeled him and me as heaven forbid "penny
pinchers".
We shared various
ideas on how to save money, the GI shower, close the door we don’t
need to heat up the whole neighborhood, turn off the lights etc. The
capper to our discussing the possibility of cutting off the toes of
our kids shoes, so we could delay buying a new pair. Hey those
Stride Wrights were expensive. But we both kept watching for the
other to act on this so that the other wouldn't look like the bad
guy.
Sense of humor:
We shared lots of
jokes and lots of fun stories on more that one occasion I sensed
that he thought possibly I had stretched the risqué' envelop just a
little, especially among some of his dignified and close friends. He
wasn't right about everything.
Intelligence:
Buz was always
learning and he read constantly and the worst of it was he had such
a keen memory that could remember everything he read. Can you
imagine such a thing.
This was especially
aggravating with his challenging style, if you made a statement he
would often challenge it and then had the audacity to back it up
source in fact. sometimes you say , do you trust that source.
Marcia and I were
talking not long ago about this intelligence and she remarked, that
he was a master at crossword puzzles and in fact she could not
remember him ever not being able spell a word in their married life.
Personally I really like spell checker.
He was excellent with
words, on one occasion we were exchanging ideas and I made some
astute observations Buz complimented me by saying something like
this ; (my memory isn’t as keen as his) But it went something like
this: Jim you have a very fertile mind,
Or was it you have
very fertilizer mind and it is only exceeded by your personal
impotence. Such a compliment I have never had.
Courage to step out:
What this brings to
mind is, he and Marcia bought the Kent property to build on
themselves. When you consider that he had no previous building
experience but was still willing to undertake this significant
project is testimony to his self confidence, intelligence and work
ethic, that allowed him to proceed. Even after he was diagnosed with
kidney failure they began and build a beautiful home on the Long
Branch Peninsula. Hoping for the future. I respect him for all he
set out to do.
As I thought about
this endeavor I was reminded of a famous Teddy Roosevelt Quote: and
this needs to be looked at in perspective
Roosevelt said:
Far better it is
to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though
checkered by failure, than to rank with those poor spirits who
neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the
gray twilight that knows neither victory or defeat.
Here again you could
say that T.R. was talking of loftier things but I view it as the
similar kind of spirit.
Even in the later
months of his life he was looking forward to things, what comes to
mind is the restoration of his vw beetle convertible.
Sports and
recreation:
He not only was an
avid follower of many sports and he knew statistics and player
status from all types of sports. He mastered the use of the clicker.
He wasn't only a spectator he was a participant.
A track man in high
school, a superb ping pong player and he played basketball for many
years in the Boeing basketball league and at least one other league.
The Boeing teams name was the supertonics. By this name you might
conclude they were even better after the game than during.
He and the family
took many vacations; He especially enjoyed Lake Chelan in the
summer, swimming, volleyball and the whole vacation atmosphere.
He was a diverse
person.
Conclusion:
I loved and respected
him and certainly miss him.
With the way Buz
conducted his life on earth, I am certain he will be welcomed in
heaven.
Presented: September
22, 2001